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Invite someone to your household

Open Family from the menu, tap Add Family Member, enter their name, email and relationship, and tap Invite User. They get an email with a link to join.

Steps

  1. Tap the menu icon, then Family.

    The Family screen with a Your Family Circle header showing two avatars, a Partner section listing two connected people, and an Add Family Member button.
  2. Tap Add Family Member. If you have no partner yet, you may see Invite Your Partner instead.

  3. Enter Full Name and Email Address. Mobile is optional. Under Relation to you choose Mother, Father, Spouse, Child, Brother, Sister or Other.

    The Add a Family Member form with Full Name, Mobile, Email Address and Relation to you fields and an Invite User button.
  4. Tap Invite User. A message says Member added successfully. They show as Pending until they accept.

What they receive

An email titled Shayr invitation from [your name] with a link. If they already have Shayr, they also get an in app notification. You get a confirmation email. Invites expire after 30 days.

If you were invited

  1. Sign up or sign in with the same email the invite was sent to.
  2. On Home a sheet asks Request to join Shayr. Tap Accept or Decline.
  3. After you accept, you see the same accounts, balances, budgets and goals as the rest of the household. Your own linked accounts join the shared view too. If you are already in another household with other people, you must leave it first.

Resend an invite

Tap the person marked Pending, then Resend invite. Only the person who sent the invite can resend it.

Checks Shayr makes

If something goes wrong

They did not get the email.
Ask them to check spam and confirm the address you typed. Then tap Resend invite.
It says Invite already sent to this email ID.
That email already has an open invite. Wait for it to be accepted or declined.
It says User already exists and is part of a family.
That person is in another household. They need to leave it first.
The app says my email address is not valid.
Addresses must end in .com for now. Contact us for another domain.

Last updated October 5, 2026. Verified on Shayr 1.3.18, iPhone.